Finding Balance

Finding Balance

For ever so long I have thought that finding balance is about finding a position like this: Serene. Superserene, in fact. In control. Perfect. Definitely something to STRIVE FOR. And not let go of once I have it. The way this looks in my life is pretty much an impossible frozen moment of having everything sorted and organised and just the way it “should” be. Erm… reality...

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Why can’t I just START?

Why can’t I just START?

Some days, I just feel time slipping away, and That Task doesn’t get done. It doesn’t even get started. I fill my time chatting online, sorting my shoes, eating, napping… you name it. Tick-tick-tick. Then the great big PROCRASTINATION label comes down and zonks me in the head. Well, I am a coach. So this is how I start acting like one. Applying the most important and sacred...

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Smell a Rat Story?

Smell a Rat Story?

A RAT Story is special. A rat story is one that is so close to your heart and to your very identity that you will probably struggle to even see that it is a story. A normal story that you tell yourself to justify why you ate that cookie or why your spouse is a jerk or why you deserve that parking space is just a little variation on a thought theme. A rat is petted, and stroked, and taken care of....

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Boiled frogs

Boiled frogs

(Disclaimer: no frogs were harmed in the making of this blog) So, one of life’s great questions, and I bet you didn’t even realise it, is “How do you boil a frog?” You’d think, wouldn’t you that you just get a pot of boiling water. Add a frog. and voila! end of discussion. But no… you see, if you do that, then the frog will LEAP OUT IMMEDIATELY…...

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